Menu Monday…Three Days Late 1/22-1/26

This week got away from me and I’m just now finding time to post our menu for the week. Sorry for the delay. I hope your table has good things on it this week.

Monday– Jennika Cooks: One Pot Cajun Chicken Alfredo and Fruit Salad
I am LOVING this new tradition and I think Jennika doesn’t mind it either. She has done a great job choosing  and preparing healthy meals. She didn’t even freak when she had to cut up raw chicken!

TuesdayGreek Salad with Pita Bread and Hummus
I love this recipe. Sometimes we will have this as a side for Trader Joe’s Gyros but tonight it was the stand alone meal and it was so satisfying.

WednesdayKraut Burgers and Fresh Fruit Salad
Continuing our Wednesday night theme of German food has been a fun adventure in foods I wouldn’t usually think to make. This was a hit, especially with the kids and I think there’s a version of this meat bread combination in almost every culture.

ThursdayFiesta Chicken and Brown Rice
This is the base recipe but I’m not going to follow it exactly. I don’t like instant rice so I’m going to make and serve the rice separately.

Friday-Spaghetti Bar and Green Beans
I think I’ve written before about our favorite ways to eat spaghetti. Our kids love it with browned butter and finely grated myzithra cheese. I love it with fresh basil ribbons, thinly sliced green olives, and a splash of lime juice. Kris like it pretty much every way. 😉  So I prepare the different toppings and let everyone have it their own way.

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Menu Monday 01/15-19/2018

My ten year old is going to start making dinner on Monday nights. She gets to plan and prepare the meal for that night. I’m excited to (hopefully) pass on my love for cooking and also have some good discussions about healthy and balanced meals. How do you involve your family in meal preparation?

Monday- Jennika Cooks!

Tuesday – Spicy Lemon Garlic Shrimp, Crusty Bread, Brussels Sprouts with Toasted Garlic and Lemon

Wednesday – Steak, German Potato Salad, Asparagus
Sticking with our Wednesday German Theme…sort of. PS there are so many great steak recipes out there. I like a simple, well grilled steak that’s just barely cooked. Did you know you should let your raw steak come to room temperature before cooking it? Also slathering butter on it before cooking never hurts either. 😉

Thursday – BBQ Chicken Pizza, Green Salad
This is another favorite. I have a great pizza dough recipe, but for this pizza I highly recommend using PW’s recipe.

Friday – Pad Thai
We haven’t had pad thai in ages. It’s one of my favorite quick and healthy Thai dishes. I don’t strictly follow any recipe for this. For example, I think bean sprouts are hard to get these days, so I’ll substitute some other type of vegetable, spinach maybe? I also like to use firm tofu as my protein. Anyhow, this is a good basic recipe.

Menu Monday- 01/08-12/18

It’s a new year and time to get back to eating healthy and wholesome meals instead of holiday candy and party foods. I am making a deliberate effort to incorporate more vegetables into our diet. What eating goals do you have for this new year?

Monday-Coconut Lime Chicken with Brown Rice and Green Salad
This is my launching recipe. I prefer to cut the chicken into small pieces and increase the amount of sauce by bumping up the chicken stock and coconut milk. I also use a jalapeno and no chili flakes, but you could omit this if your family does not like spicy foods.

Tuesday-Indian Butter Chicken with White Rice and Roasted Cauliflower
This is one of our family favorites. There are so many great versions of this recipe out there. Here is my favorite.  I don’t have a recipe for the roasted cauliflower. I like to toss it in olive oil and salt and roast for 15 minutes at 400, until it is just tender. Then top with Parmesan cheese. However for this meal I may find something that will better complement the Indian flavors.

WednesdayKartoffelpuffer and bratwurst with sauerkraut
We are doing a 5 week study on the Five Solas as a way to celebrate the 500th anniversary of the Reformation. So I’m trying to find something German to make each night of the study. I know almost nothing about German food so this is a big stretch.

ThursdayZuppa Toscana, Green Salad and Breadsticks
Think Olive Garden 🙂 I always make several modifications to this. I omit the bacon and use kielbasa sausage instead of spicy Italian sausage. I also use 1/2 & 1/2 instead of heavy cream.

Friday– Leftovers

I hope your week is full of good food.

2017 in Review

I have found myself regretting not sending a family update in our Christmas cards. I sort  of thought everyone would be too busy to want to read an update…but then I got other  updates from the people I love and really enjoyed reading them…even the really long ones. So behold, my best solution: a blog post year in review.

We got to go on several fun trips this year, including Zion, Phoenix, and Oregon. But I think we’d all agree the highlight was our very first camping trip to Lake Powell over Labor Day weekend. Our campsite was only accessible by boat, which meant we had a whole hillside and canyon to ourselves. The water was warm and we had so much fun exploring the myriad of slot canyons and waterways. We were so pleased with how well the boat did hauling all of our camping gear and us all over that we decided to rename it. While our little Bayliner may not be fancy, it is perfect for us and we are so thankful for the adventures we’ve gotten to take with it.

 

edit17Jennika turned 10 and decided to grow several inches this year. She still really loves dancing and is starting to enjoy playing the piano more and more. She danced in the H5pv83HvR92ojr4BE9lTRANutcracker this winter and really loved it. She was a party girl, which meant I got to learn how to roll her hair in curlers and she got to wear them for 6-12 hours before every performance!
She proved (once again) that she is a tough girl, getting nine stitches in her eyebrow after a run-in with a post and then later in the year a nasty and deep cut on her foot after stepping on a broken bottle in a river.
She continues to enjoy school and as a 5th grader also enjoys getting to rule the school. Her skills in speaking Mandarin continue to grow and we continue to be impressed and jealous.

Korban is now 8 years old and also decidededit14 to add a few inches to his height this year. Despite growing like a weed, he still has not lost any of this baby teeth, and therefore had a case of what’s commonly called Shark Tooth. His front adult teeth were starting to come in behind his front baby teeth. He thought this was super cool, especially the name, until he learned he would have to have his baby teeth pulled! He endured the process (twice!) really well and we are hoping all his other baby teeth will loosen and fall out naturally.
He loves all things Lego, Star Wars, and baseball. He cheered his heart out for the Dodgers during the World Series and I think we may have a lifelong Dodgers fan in the making.
As a red belt, Korban continues making steady progress towards earning his black belt in Taekwondo. It is amazing to see how much his skill, balance, and coordination has improved since he first started.
6cog3rkcrdye6ns5v37zq-e1514419381798.jpgKorban also made a big decision to get baptized this year. This was huge for him since he does not particularly enjoy getting up and speaking in front of people. He was very nervous but stayed strong and faithful. I think it will be something he always remembers because it was a hard thing for him to do.

 

 

Kris has become quite a craftsman, building a new bed frame for us and a desk for himself. He has also started a new project outside, re-siding our house.  He still loves hiking, running, and skiing back country but hasn’t has a lot of opportunity to do the latter this winter due to low snow pack. He continues to work as a software engineer analyzing medical studies for Doctor Evidence. They were excited to play a key role in the American Heart Association’s new blood pressure guidelines released this year.

I learned how to back-country ski this last winter and absolutely loved it. I also spent many hours hiking in our beautiful Wasatch Mountains. This Fall I took a part-time job at the kids’ school as a reading interventionist. I am really enjoying helping 1st-4th graders improve their reading skills.

Thank you for reading this far! I hope the end to your 2017 is sweet and that 2018 is full of good things.

Menu Monday 11/6-11/10

Here’s what’s cooking in our house this week!

Monday-Pumpkin Pasta with Creamy Sauce and Winter Salad
See previous post for recipes

TuesdayVegan Buddah Bowls
This is almost better as leftovers…almost.

Wednesday-Leftovers

ThursdayWhite Bean and Kale Soup and homemade rolls

Friday-Spaghetti (or as my son says, “Sghabetti!”) and Green Beans
We are not very traditional when it comes to how we like our spaghetti. No red sauce lovers in our house! Our favorite ways to eat spaghetti is with myzithra cheese and browned butter or with fresh basil, sliced green olives and a little bit of lime juice.

Also, some feedback on a couple recipes I’ve tried over the last few weeks. Remember the pickle and beef tacos? They were kind of, meh. It wasn’t bad, just didn’t have any real pop in the flavors or textures. I think I’m going to try it again with come really crisp pickles and see if that does the trick.

Menu Monday 10/30-11/3

There are few things I love more than flipping through a beautifully complied cookbook. The sense of possibilities is almost overwhelming. I picked up the the Pioneer Woman’s newest cookbook this week and am so excited to try a couple new recipes from it. It is one of the most beautiful and fun cookbooks I’ve seen, full of photos and yummy, approachable recipes.

MondayTurkey with Mushroom Cream Sauce and Winter Salad with Poppy seed Dressing

TuesdayBeef Stew and Bread
With most food I cook, I see a recipe as the guidelines and within those guidelines there is a great deal of room for creativity. I think soups and stews are the perfect place to start playing around with your creative side. Use the recipe I linked above as your guideline and add from there. Maybe a little red wine? Perhaps you like wild rice in your stew. Taste, add, adjust, repeat. And most importantly, have fun.

Wednesday-Hamburger Steaks with Mushroom Gravy, Salad (from Pioneer Woman’s new cookbook!)

Thursday-Leftovers

Friday-TexMex Butternut Squash Soup (also from Pioneer Woman’s new cookbook!)

Menu Monday 10/23-27

It’s a busy week, so I’m breaking out some of my tried and true favorites. But I also threw in a new recipe for some excitement. I’m still developing the pumpkin pasta recipe but I can tell you it is so, so yummy. Until it’s ready, here’s the link to the recipe that inspired me. Enjoy!

Monday–BBQ Chicken and Black Bean Salad
No real recipe for this one. Just bake some chicken in your favorite BBQ sauce (I use Sweet Baby Ray’s). Remove and let cool. Then cut it up and pull out a can for black beans, rinsed. Chop up some lettuce and tomatoes. Pull out any toppings that sound delicious to you. We like shredded cheddar, corn, jalapeños, and black olives. I like to mix together some BBQ sauce, ranch dressing, and a dash of hot sauce for the dressing. Eat with chips and salsa.

TuesdaySchool Fundraising Night
Means dinner at Papa Murphy’s! 😉

Wednesday–Pumpkin Pasta and Roasted Broccoli
I’m SO excited to share this recipe with you! Soon!

Thursday–Good old Red Curry and Rice
Warms you up inside!

Friday–Beef and Pickle Tacos
This recipe is new and it intrigues me. Pickles?! I’ll let you know what I think. P.S. Joy the Baker is one of my most favorite bloggers and Instagram accounts. If you don’t follow her already and you love food (duh), you should be. It’s a no brainer.

Menu Monday (10/16-10/20)

It feels like fall here and so it’s time to break out the warming-your-insides recipes.

Monday–Fried Rice and Trader Joe’s Potstickers
(Check out my Instagram feed for my favorite short-cut fried rice recipe.)

Tuesday–Leftovers

Wednesday–Pasta with Creamy Pumpkin Sauce, Green Salad
(recipe in development, if it’s good, I’ll post it)

ThursdayChicken Pot Pie with Cream Cheese Biscuits

FridayButter Chicken, Rice, Cauliflower

Happy Fall!

Five Points on Calvinism

I wanted to share some thoughts on Calvinism and defense of it. This is topic that is often mentioned, but I wanted to put down a little more detailed description of my beliefs, and maybe something that can be discussed on top of these points. But first, let me clearly say that this is indeed a challenging topic that many have debated, and I hope to express some humility: I certainly don’t have the answers. However, I believe it is still worthwhile to think about and discuss with an attitude of humility. So here it is, my Five Points on Calvinism (sorry for the pun 🙂 ):

1. I consider myself a Calvinist. But I would also warn against Calvinism if it leads you towards fatalism or against the belief in free will and responsibility for your decisions. If you believe that predestination means that you have no agency or opportunity to shape the future, then reject predestination. The reality and truth that our will decides the future is a hundred times more important than any truth found in Calvinism. And any errors of Armianism or open theism is a hundred times less significant than the errors of fatalism.

And furthermore, if you have any tendency to believe that just because God sovereignly ordained past events, that they prove and demonstrate God’s pleasing will, what he desires, then run from Calvinism. There are countless evil situations, evil leaders appointed, and tragedies that have occurred that God has sovereignly allowed. Let us not think for a second that this even suggests that this means God is pleased by these tragedies and evil. If you are prone to look at events in the world or your life and accept them as good simply because “God is in control”, I would suggest reconsidering what God’s sovereignty means. If these two dimensions of God’s will are confusing, Calvinism is not worth the confusion.

I would also warn against middle ground fallacy here, and seeking a compromise in semi-Calvinist views. I think the most reasonable alternative to Calvinism really is open theism. From my perspective, “middle grounds” seem more like mix and matching different views of God in whatever way is convenient. It is equally pernicious when we freely define some things as unavoidably according to God’s will and others as outside of His will based on whatever we like and dislike.

2. It is my conviction to avoid using the term “reformed” to describe my beliefs in predestination and free will and instead use the term “Calvinism”. I believe it is disingenuous and historically inaccurate to use “reformed” to describe a specific understanding of predestination. The reformation was not primarily a movement for or against a position on free will, but is best summarized by the five “solas” of the reformation, a dissent against other elements that were being added to the notions of grace, faith, and salvation. The primary debates about predestination actually consisted of reformed theologians on both sides (Arminius was definitely reformed). Declaring one side as true “reformed” is an example of “no true scotsman” rhetoric, not only a logical fallacy, but a underhanded means of attributing falsehood to dissenters by exclusion.

This is shady rhetoric, but it also blurs the focus of what being reformed should really be about. It is not a commitment to a specific understanding of sovereignty. What being reformed means to me, and what I prize is a commitment to the five solas: salvation defined by scripture alone, received by faith alone, through grace alone, by Christ alone, for the glory of God alone. These are the fundamental ideas that shape my theology and life, apart from any debates on the nature of sovereignty.

I also recognize that “Calvinism” is also not a historically accurate term either. John Calvin certainly taught on many subjects, and distilling it down to beliefs on predestination is simplistic. But, at least this term is also widely known, and I would rather misrepresent one person than the entire reformed tradition.

So, back to Calvinism…

3. The question of the nature of God’s sovereignty is not only a theologic question, but deeply intersects with the philosophy of determinism, and how we define the meaning of free will. Free will is the process of how we come to make decisions in our life. According to libertarian free-will philosophy, free will is only free if it is not predetermined. However, I believe this is confusing our feelings and perception of free-will, the feeling or experience of free-will as being from external constraints in our decision-making. However, as a Calvinist, I believe that our decisions are actually the direct result of our (mostly) internal thoughts, feeling, and goals. Every action, decision in the world is either the result of existing causes, or it is not, and when something is not meaningful related to some cause, it is by definition, randomness. Every decision is primarily either the result of our meaningful decision-making deterministically driven by our characters, values, and desires, or it is primarily randomness, unmeaningful rolls of the dice, coming out of nothingness.

Philosophically, Calvinism is known as compatibilitism. If God gives us the desire for chocolate ice cream, is our free will violated when then go to an ice cream shop, and gladly choose chocolate ice cream? No! If God gives us a passion for dance, and knows we will use it, have we then lost our free will if we then joyously choose to dance? No, absolutely not! God’s sovereignty over a deterministic universe and our free-will are not incompatible concepts, rather they point to the fact that our free-will is our experience of who we are, determining our decisions.

I believe that Calvinism, properly understood, should in no way diminish the consequences of our actions, or the responsibility that we bear in our actions. If we point a gun at someone, the decision to pull the trigger will leave the victim every bit as alive or dead, and leaves with every bit as much responsibility for the action, regardless of whether God knew or ordained it ahead of time. If our free-will is compatible with God’s sovereignty, so are the consequences and responsibilities that go along with it.

Therefore, I believe that our free will is primarily meaningful and deterministic, not caprice and randomness. And my belief in Calvinist determinism is a belief that God is directing a meaningful world, not a random world of people making decisions out of nothing, without cause or meaning.

4. Of course, the nature of God’s sovereignty is indeed very much a theological question, and receives such attention because it is crucial to theodicy: how does suffering and evil exist, if God is good?

It is worth actually considering two aspects of this question. First, does evil originate from God? And second, why does he allow suffering to persist in this world?

The Arminian answer is to appeal to human’s free will as the source of evil, in order to vindicate God. To these questions, the suggested answer is that our free will is the origination of evil, and suffering persists because of our sinful actions.

I simply don’t find this to be a very compelling. This vindication of God sounds like a child declaring that it is not “his fault, it is the thrown ball that decided to arc downwards into her sisters head that is to blame”. If you set something in motion, knowing how it will (or likely will) result, I believe there is (at least, to some degree) a responsibility for the outcome.

And while defining evil as originating from our wills may provide some semantic separation from God in origination of evil, it is does very little to answer the second question. The reality is that the majority of suffering and pain we experience is not due to direct evil actions on the part of others, but rather natural forces like disease, natural disasters, etc. Excusing a small part of our suffering to free will is like providing a 25% discount on God’s evilness. He may not be terribly bad, He is just really bad. And arguing that these diseases and disasters are somehow the actions that God had to inflict as a result of our sin is like the child who argues that he had to hit his sister in the face, because she was saying bad things. This is constructing an arbitrary and unnecessary cause and effect. It strikes me as a pretty weak answer to these questions. Do we really want to strip God of sovereignty to the point that he is relatively impotent demi-god, losing most of his battles, for the sake of excusing himself? Does this realistically offer much assurance of future victory?

Rather than making excuses for and lessen God’s control of the world, I believe it is far more compelling to look towards transcendent purpose and meaning in the meta-narrative of this world. I find a compelling analogy in God as an author. An author isn’t evil because he has crafted a story with evil characters, these are part of what provide the contrast, the challenges, the twists for good to be displayed most vividly, for good to be victorious in a meaningful way.

The Biblical analogy of light and dark points to the value of contrast to bringing meaningful illumination. Indistinguishable light may be comforting, but does not fully and truly reveal the light source, and our show the beauty of colors against the backdrop. And this is meaningful in time as well, God’s progressive and gradual revelation brings greater significance and clarity to His righteousness.  In answering the question of why suffering persists, it is because of the beauty of contrasts, and gradual unfolding of His story.

Scriptures make no effort to obscure God’s role in ordaining and creating those that who are perpetrators of evil, and clearly indicates the purpose of showing the contrast of good and evil, to fully show His goodness. Paul (Rom 9:22-23) plainly says that He is made “vessels of wrath” to contrast against those that act merciful, which He “prepared beforehand” in order to make “known the riches of His glory.”

But how do we answer the first question, of the origination of evil? Does this mean we are claiming that God created evil? This would indeed be the case, and would be an unacceptable claim (Psalms 92:15, 1 John 1:5), except that this conclusion is actually based on a false assumption: that evil needed to be created to exist. But again, the scriptural analogy of light and dark is revelatory: darkness is not an actual entity that is created, it is the absence of light. And likewise, evil is really the absence of righteousness. In other words, God created a world, in which His righteousness is not fully and instantly revealed and applied. And because His righteousness has not entered every part of the world, the absence of righteousness, evil, is plainly visible and common. God didn’t create evil, he create a world that was not fully imbued with His righteousness, and the manifestation of this world lacking righteousness, is man acting evil. This doesn’t mean that evil isn’t an active and powerful force, it certainly is, but it is a force that consists of suppressing light, oppressing good, a force defined in the negative.

In short, rather than trying to vindicate God by trying to remove or lessen His role in precisely and exactly ordaining a world that has tragedy in it, I think we should see creation, in its current form, as a point in a path, the necessary and meaningful way for God to destroy evil with the progressive unfolding of His goodness and righteousness. While acknowledging this may feel uncomfortable, this seems to me, to align most closely with scriptures.

5. As hotly debated as this topic is, from my observations, the behavioral implications seem pretty small (whereas beliefs like cessationism, dispensationalism, prosperity theology, and Zionism seem to have more substantial and observable negative implications). This is a key reason why I try to refrain from being dogmatic about this issue (and as mentioned earlier, would even push people away from my belief if it would cause fatalistic or other negative implications). However, that being said, I think there are a couple implications that I believe should result from Calvinism (although they certainly don’t always).

First, I believe that acknowledging others’ lives and decisions as inevitably affected and shaped by the numerous forces and experiences they have lived through, helps us to empathize with them. Ignoring this often results in looking at others, judging them by an isolated view of the “bad decisions they have made”. But this implicitly involves superimposing the expectations derived from the benefits of our own life experiences, education, and upbringings, than expecting the same outcome in others. A deeper view of how our decision making actually works brings us greater sympathy towards others.

Furthermore, a naive idea of others decision making as an equal isolated islands of free-will, allows us to free ourselves from any responsibility in our lives. But a fuller perspective of a deterministic world, with every life developing from many complex inputs, in a complex web of interactions, where we are all deeply intertwined, should cause us to recognize the ways that our interactions with others is significant and meaningful.

Again, it is easy to look at someone’s broken life, and blame them for their “bad decisions”. But along the way, did they grow up in a disadvantaged home, that we ignored? Was their education neglected in ways, that we could have helped out with? Did they go hungry, when we could have fed them or advocated for them? Those living with their poor decisions, certainly bear responsibility for their own decisions, but in a Calvinistic worldview, so do we, if we have neglected them.

Second, Calvinism brings focus on the glory of God as the highest and central goal of God and us, as followers. This stems from the fact that in a universe sovereignly and deterministically ordered by God, defining any smaller goal, any of the battles we try to win, as the ultimate goal is nonsensical, as God could simply end or win such battles instantly. Calvinism forces us to see that the only truly coherent overarching goal of God is one in which the struggles of humanity persist because the process of, and the way they are overcome, can be manifested, showing God’s glory.

An analogy might be to consider how a shift in goals affects our own behavior. First, imagine the goal of driving across the country to get to New York. This goal, wholeheartedly pursued, simply involves getting across the country as quickly as possible, with as little interruption as possible. Now imagine changing the goal to driving across for the purpose of writing a book about it. This second goal, while on the surface may look similar, is actually very different. Taking the time to make the trip significant and memorable, and doing the trip well, become the primary objectives, so that the journey can be fully appreciated. In other words, the “glory” of the trip, and how it can be shared, takes precedent over simply getting to the other shore. Having a higher, transcendent purpose overarching the goal of getting across America completely transforms our approach.

Likewise, pursuing God’s glory properly shapes our view of goals like evangelism, discipleship, church growth, social justice, and other pursuits as subordinate to the ultimate goal. And consequently how we do them, in a way that reflects God’s ways, is as important as the results of the subordinate goals.

To be clear, these implications of Calvinism are perspectives that I believe Calvinism should hopefully point people towards. However, in reality these perspectives can be shared by non-Calvinists as well, I simply think it is more of direct implication of Calvinism.

Regardless of how we attempt to understand and make sense of mysterious concepts of determinism and free-will, I do hope we can grow in our understanding of how deeply our lives are intertwined, and that we can more fully appreciate and enter in to God’s beautiful story of revealing His goodness, and make that our ultimate vision.